As there is day after night, similarly, success also comes in
life but after struggle. Ups and downs are the part of life but
it doesn't mean to punish ourselves by taking serious the talks or
bad behaves of people. People are devils, but angels are also in people.
People are taking much stress about daily happenings impacting
their jobs, living styles, expenditures, way of enjoyments and many more
things. There are the main reasons for this are behavior of people to them,
impact of their works, deeds, talks, and everything going wrong. They
lost their ways because they were upset and have no other solution for these
problems. Now the question is how we can relax our minds and make life
good? How to enjoy every moment of life? How to keep calm ourselves? Just
following are the points by my own personal experience. I had been in many
situations when almost I lost my hope and decided to lock myself in the room to
get relax. But I didn't find any relaxation in that room. Sometimes I punished
myself like pulling my hairs, abusing the bosses or crap people who trapped me
in that situation where I was helpless. One day I saw a dream, I saw there a
young man facing teasing by others and had no way to get out, suddenly he saw a
huge white light and an angel came out from that light and said: “Problems are
temporary, you have to live a happy long life.”
So this dream changed me and left a big change in me. From that
day I decided to not to hurt myself, or behave anger to others, keep myself
calm, will take no stress, enjoy every moment of life because life is so
beautiful just start enjoying it, you’ll be happy, relax and cool. This is the
worthy truth that, enjoy life till the last breath. Just concentrate on right
and don’t forget, you can’t decide what is right without experiencing the
bluffs and deceives by others. Right thing is when you worried about anything, watch entertainment shows of your region or
movies, listening songs or watching interesting things to change to attention of
your mind. Once you did this you’ll find yourself relax, calm and fresh. Now
you can decide to choose right and can take right decisions which are
beneficial for your life. Just forget the past incidents, misbehaves, hurting
stories and whatever. These things don’t deserve to make our life hell, or make
us unhappy. We just have to forget these to live happy life having no sorry
words for our past, be satisfied with what we have in our hand.
Dreaming is also a good thing change life from one end to other,
to make dreams to someone whom you love the most. Your focus of all efforts is
on completing of dreams but, nothing gonna be happen easily without doing hard
work and also enjoying what are you doing. Without dream, your work is like a
car running on endless road. You keep struggling and struggling but no
aim/dream means no end. So, after falling from a point first thing is to do
make an aim to and work hard to achieve it. As I said problems don’t matter but
success maters. Nobody is perfect on this world, but punctuality, happiness,
ignoring the bluffs and calmness make a man happy, worthy, healthy, fit and
fresh.
In another survey the ratio between the ages of people who take
tension of people behave, always shows depressed and the people who enjoy
every moment of is just like 4:7. It means happy living man feels 3 times
lighter than depressed person. That’s why enjoying people do work in good,
unique, easy and creative way due to fresh mind. Fact is that, a healthy mind
can produce best ideas. One thing more depressed people loosing there blood in
a great quantity, they waste there power. So never look back what happened,
because this’ll never and can’t come back again. Focus on trying to leave
painful moments of your life and try to happy others and yourselves also. One
thing more don’t jealous from someone, because when we are jealous, it will
create hate in us and our attitude become angry. This is not only worst for our
health, but can encourage us to do stupid things like fight with someone,
abusing or any sort of mad things. So, now you can imagine what the worst thing
is jealousy. Try to feel free by helping others or take part in games of any
sort of entertainment going on at any place. Either you accept or not, but
you’ll feel a rapid change in that events and forget your past for a while.
Isn't it good? I think this is good.
Gifts are the other source of relaxing the mind or change the
attention if mind. Suppose you are depressed, ring at the door, you opened that
door, you see nobody except a bouquet of flowers or a gift present there. For
an instance, you’ll wonder and think who sent these and your depression has
ended at that time, your focus is on searching that person who made you happy.
That’s the real impact of gifts. It makes you happy and fresh. Now again
suppose there is a friend at the door shouting to go to watch a movie. Will you
make an excuse? I am sure you’ll not do that. This is what I wanted to say. I
don’t like when someone is destroying or teasing itself for just an ignorable stupid reason. We are responsible for ourselves.
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